Certainty is a tricky lover.
It rarely shows up with logic in hand or facts in footnotes. It moves like instinct…quiet, unshakable, often unexplainable.
But still, there are things I know.
Not because I was taught. Not because I read it.
But because my bones remembered before my mind caught up.

So here are ten things I know to be absolutely certain:

1. Energy never lies.
People might smile with their mouths, but their frequency will tell the truth. Always trust the vibration over the vocabulary.

2. Ancestral wisdom lives in your blood.
You are not here alone. You are the continuation of ceremonies whispered in smoke and starlight. Sit still…your lineage is speaking.

3. The body remembers everything.
Every heartbreak. Every miracle. Every time you betrayed yourself to be loved. Healing isn’t forgetting, it’s listening.

4. Silence is sacred.
Not everything needs to be posted, explained, or shared. The most powerful transformations often happen in private.

5. Love is not possession.
Real love doesn’t grip…it expands. If it clips your wings, it’s not love. It’s control wearing cologne.

6. Beauty is a spiritual technology.
It’s not frivolous. It’s a spell, a force, a form of resistance. To adorn yourself is to remind the world you are art and altar in motion.

7. Rest is not laziness.
In a world built on extraction, choosing rest is revolutionary. The nap is sacred. The pause is power.

8. You can’t outrun the work.
Whatever lesson you dodge will circle back, in a new outfit, with sharper teeth. Might as well turn around and face it—barefoot and brave.

9. Every “no” creates space for the right “yes.”
Stop fearing rejection. It’s redirection. Protection. A clearing. Let the false things fall away.

10. You are the altar.
The prayer, the priestess, the flame, the offering. You don’t have to chase divinity. You are it.

There’s more I could add—but these ten? They’re tattooed on my soul.

Now you—what do you know to be true, beyond reason, beyond proof?
Whisper it. Write it. Live it.
That’s your north star.